Good Idea/Bad Idea.....

I have done it twice. Financially what a great idea, right? Well I am here as a person who wanted more than just half on the electric bill from my relationships. I actually wanted to have a relationship that evolved into a marriage with my mate. Each time many promises and words of hope were thrown my way and sad to say each time it ended with years/notches in my bed post along with a wet crotch and alone.

Not to say that it doesn't work out for some but then again I don't know them strngers either. Personally I don't suggest it if you wish to have more from your guy or girl. People show you who they are and what the answer to your questions. You have to choose to believe the truth or what your heart wishes to be truth.

If you’re considering moving in together, have a conversation about expectations, have a conversation about finances and have a conversation about values. You are now running a household together and it’s not cool to have one person bear all financial burdens while the other cartwheels for hours on end. It’s not cool to constantly be borrowing from parents all so you can have a place to have sex in. And it’s definitely not cool to live with someone who is a slob or domestically defunct. When you sign a lease, that’s when sh*t gets real.

What say you?